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Writer's picturePaul de Bruijn

Don't force yourself to fit in somewhere you don't belong




We have all experienced moments when we found ourselves in situations, places, or relationships that didn't truly align with who we are.


Despite this, we often try to force ourselves to fit in, like trying to fit a square into a circle. We may ignore the signs telling us that this isn't where we belong, driven by a desire for acceptance and validation.


It's essential to recognize the writing on the wall and realize that we don't need to force ourselves into spaces where we don't belong. Instead, we should focus on finding where we are needed, valued, and appreciated. Our decisions should be driven by where we genuinely belong, not where we feel we should be.


Our presence should be a reflection of our value, and we should never compromise that. Embrace the places and situations where you are valued, and know that being true to yourself is the key to finding where you truly belong. Always remember your worth and let that guide your decisions.

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